Don't be easily manipulated; those who are manipulated for a long time will gradually lose their judgment and independence.

You get used to listening to instructions, waiting for arrangements, and catering to others.
Over time, you forget what you want to do and what you should do.
Once you accept this domestication, you are likely to develop a habit of being timid and revolving around others for the rest of your life.
The mountain must be climbed by yourself, and the road must be traveled by yourself.
Set your own route and control your rhythm; otherwise, you will lose your independence and find it hard to see the view from your own mountain peak.