Ten years' time, to compress all the psychological torment one should experience in a lifetime, repeatedly enduring it over and over again. Merely enduring is not enough; one must also review oneself daily and make incremental changes. The depth of change directly correlates with the depth of feedback in the account.
Those who change little lose quickly; those who change more lose slowly; only those who completely transform themselves can start earning. It sounds simple, but in practice? The vast majority of people cannot do it.
All the things that need changing are ingrained in a person's bones—the instinctual codes written into their genes, survival programs that have evolved over millions of years. It is this set of programs that has made humans the rulers of the Earth. Ironically, these innate instincts and natural tendencies, which are invincible in the natural world, become poison in the trading market, almost guaranteeing a margin call.
Human nature is characterized by certain flaws: a dislike for deep thinking, a habit of following feelings; forgetting principles when seeing small profits; being strict with others but lenient with oneself; always finding excuses; disdaining rules and preferring shortcuts; stubbornly holding on during floating losses and rushing to close during floating gains; making solemn promises before placing an order, then forgetting everything once the market opens; emotional buildup leading to impulsive actions; when gambling instincts take over, frequent trading, directly opposing the market... All these issues need to be rooted out, one by one.
Some problems are easier to fix; after losing once or twice, one learns the lesson. But some bad habits are particularly stubborn; after dozens or even hundreds of losses, they still cannot be changed. Even more heartbreaking, there are some operational traps that one might not even notice, and by the time they realize, the cost has already been paid.
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ConsensusDissenter
· 15h ago
It's really harsh, but this is the reality. The stuff in your genes can't be changed, and the market is here to harvest these.
Ten years, condensed lessons learned through bloodshed. Most people can't make it past the second year.
Can losing once or twice be enough to change? Dream on. Some bad habits really require being wiped out a hundred or eighty times before they sink in.
Feeling like leaving, making excuses, stubbornly holding floating losses, rushing to close profits... Ah, isn't this just looking at your own trading records?
The most heartbreaking thing isn't losing money, but those traps you can never detect yourself. By the time you react, you've already been completely harvested.
Changing yourself, in essence, is attacking your own human nature. Only the tough survive.
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ser_we_are_ngmi
· 15h ago
That's right, but most people still can't change, including myself.
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The nature of things is truly incredible; a divine tool in the natural world becomes a butcher's knife on the exchange.
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The most heartbreaking thing isn't the number of losses, but the inability to realize you're self-destructing.
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Changing oneself in ten years? I think most people will still be jumping into the same pit ten years later.
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Taking profits when floating gains appear and stubbornly holding through floating losses—this is probably ingrained in DNA, so what's there to change?
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Finding the root cause is easy; truly pulling it out is the difficulty of hell.
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It seems everything said is correct, but as soon as the market opens, the brain crashes—how to save that?
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Some bad habits can't be changed even after losing hundreds of times, which means it's not a habit problem but fate.
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So in the end, you still have to lose enough to break even; there's no quick awakening.
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Endlessly enduring ten years of psychological torment to make a profit? I think most people give up after three years.
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GweiTooHigh
· 15h ago
Hey, isn't this talking about me? Every time I rush to take profits on unrealized gains, and stubbornly hold onto unrealized losses until they explode.
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BoredStaker
· 15h ago
It's really hitting home. I'm the kind of person who would lose a hundred times and still can't change.
Nature is truly incredible; it feels like going against the market is written in my DNA.
Changing myself is much harder than changing the market, which is why most people are destined to lose money.
Holding onto unrealized losses stubbornly and rushing to cash out on unrealized gains—I'm basically a living fossil of this pattern.
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TestnetNomad
· 15h ago
That really hits home; you just can't change that innate nature.
I'm the kind of person who rushes to lock in floating profits; I've already lost enough.
Ten years? I think that's too long for most people.
Things in your genes can't be completely changed in even a second.
The harshest are the pitfalls you don't even realize yourself.
Every time, I think this time will be different, but it turns out to be the same.
Ten years' time, to compress all the psychological torment one should experience in a lifetime, repeatedly enduring it over and over again. Merely enduring is not enough; one must also review oneself daily and make incremental changes. The depth of change directly correlates with the depth of feedback in the account.
Those who change little lose quickly; those who change more lose slowly; only those who completely transform themselves can start earning. It sounds simple, but in practice? The vast majority of people cannot do it.
All the things that need changing are ingrained in a person's bones—the instinctual codes written into their genes, survival programs that have evolved over millions of years. It is this set of programs that has made humans the rulers of the Earth. Ironically, these innate instincts and natural tendencies, which are invincible in the natural world, become poison in the trading market, almost guaranteeing a margin call.
Human nature is characterized by certain flaws: a dislike for deep thinking, a habit of following feelings; forgetting principles when seeing small profits; being strict with others but lenient with oneself; always finding excuses; disdaining rules and preferring shortcuts; stubbornly holding on during floating losses and rushing to close during floating gains; making solemn promises before placing an order, then forgetting everything once the market opens; emotional buildup leading to impulsive actions; when gambling instincts take over, frequent trading, directly opposing the market... All these issues need to be rooted out, one by one.
Some problems are easier to fix; after losing once or twice, one learns the lesson. But some bad habits are particularly stubborn; after dozens or even hundreds of losses, they still cannot be changed. Even more heartbreaking, there are some operational traps that one might not even notice, and by the time they realize, the cost has already been paid.