The more someone likes to argue and engage in disputes, the higher their level of compliance tends to be. Those who do not have a high level of compliance share a common characteristic: they have a strong sense of subjectivity. They can see the essence of things and clearly understand the relationship between themselves and the situation. They are very aware of what is important and what is not, which is called subjectivity. However, these individuals do not express their strong subjectivity through rebuttal and argumentation. Instead, those with high compliance often present themselves in the form of arguments and disputes. They claim to have a strong sense of subjectivity, but in reality, they possess the least. This serves as a subtle proof of compliance. What does this mean? When you have a very confident idea or belief, once someone opposes or questions it, you will desperately try to prove that you are right. This is an invisible form of compliance with the other party's logical thinking. The essence of this behavior is that you are seeking recognition and affirmation from others. Those at a higher level understand that in such moments, we are even less likely to give you the recognition you want. We create a sense of distance that feels both close and far away, and only when this distance reaches a certain magnitude will we satisfy your desire for recognition. Then you will obediently follow our commands. Essentially, this is a technique for influencing others. The reason this technique can emerge and be effective is due to the psychological weakness of the disputing party. I want to tell everyone that when we are unaware and unmindful, our minds are already filled with various knowledge and information from society. Your ideological system is based on an invisible cultivation from the external world, rather than wisdom that is generated internally or a result of your own active pursuit and contemplation. This represents a more invisible form of compliance, and those with unstable core values are more easily influenced by external evaluations, making them more likely to become prime targets for PUA (Pick-Up Artist) manipulation. When facing various threats and violence, after a brief period of compliance, in order to avoid a recurrence of the situation, you discipline your survival instincts. You may turn this repression into a habit in exchange for safety, which is also a form of compliance. There is a saying in the Tao Te Ching: 'The sage acts without effort and teaches without words.' In plain terms, it means we should adhere to the objective laws of things' development.

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