In China, both those born in the 80s and 90s have depression, one after another. What kind of training did we receive since childhood? Regulating behavior, emotional control, a sense of the bigger picture, empathy, cultivating resilience, pursuing excellence, being goal-oriented, maintaining self-discipline, and focusing on the long term. Sounds pretty positive, doesn’t it? Let me translate that for you: regulating behavior means restricting nature, emotional control means suppressing feelings, a sense of the bigger picture means ignoring your own needs, empathy means having a people-pleasing personality, cultivating resilience means educational hardship, pursuing excellence means constantly comparing with others. What they call being goal-oriented is actually their utilitarian thinking. Maintaining self-discipline means telling you that relaxing is shameful, and the purpose of focusing on the long term is to make you delay happiness; that happiness, when delayed, is ultimately enjoyed by others. #Gate广场创作点亮中秋 #我最看好的AI代币 #山寨币市场回暖