Any behavior seeking comfort will not help you grow: hangovers, travel, or even deep conversations with fren, as these only make you feel safe and good in the long-term cocoon. Growth is actually a particularly difficult process; you must abandon all the pretty words said to others and yourself, confront your own incompetence and inherent flaws, and even repeatedly break, play people for suckers, and overthrow all past understandings to reorganize, only then will you understand how to establish the real changes you need. #Gate Alpha晒单挑战