Morrisss

When you stand up, you'll realize that the water is actually shallow.

All comfortable relationships stem from mutual lack of expectations. Why is art so beautiful? Because it is completely useless.

In this world, there are two things you should never be ashamed of: first, pursuing the person you like, and second, making money.

Don't be easily manipulated; those who are manipulated for a long time will gradually lose their judgment and independence.
You get used to listening to instructions, waiting for arrangements, and catering to others.
Over time, you forget what you want to do and what you should do.
Once you accept this domestication, you are likely to develop a habit of being timid and revolving around others for the rest of your life.
The mountain must be climbed by yourself, and the road must be traveled by yourself.
Set your own route and control your rhythm; otherwise, you will lose your independ

Lower-level operators make money by exploiting human nature; middle-level operators understand human nature to develop products; top-level operators guide human nature to achieve recognition; and the highest-level operators build trust systems to generate compound interest.

People who now think they are really awesome were actually very foolish before.
People who now think they are very foolish were actually very awesome before.

A mirror can reflect a person, but it cannot reflect a person's heart.
All relationships are valuable as long as they are worth it; if mutual understanding isn't possible, then distance yourselves from each other.
Don't worry about things that diminish your worth; fold your hands in prayer, become your own deity.
Being independent and unafraid of loss is the best card you can hold.
Outer appearances are easy to see through, but the human heart is hard to gauge.
Pushing for a relationship where you're not understood will only make you tired and wronged.
There's no need to cater to o

Your life’s dilemma is made up of everything you’ve been refusing all along—the things you dare not want, dare not do, and dare not face. Your brain always prefers to lock away the things that make you feel afraid, hesitant, and uncomfortable, believing that if you avoid them you’ll be safe. But everything you refuse to accept will eventually turn back on you, retaliating in the form of anxiety, paranoia, and self-doubt.
The way to break through isn’t avoidance or confrontation, but acceptance and moving ahead. What you refuse is often not the difficulty itself, but the opportunity for growth

Zhuangzi said, the skillful are tired from labor and the wise are worried, while the incapable have nothing to seek. Those who eat their fill and wander around, drifting like a boat without a tether. The meaning of Zhuangzi is simple: skilled people get tired from their craft, and intelligent people worry. Only those who are of little use, after eating and drinking, wander around freely, living like a small boat without anyone tying it down, drifting wherever they please. To put it plainly, your little skills and cleverness are precisely the ropes that trap you. Truly free people are exactly t

The four stages of this cognition:
First, not knowing that you don't know, is in the arrogance stage.
Second, knowing that you don't know, is in the awakening stage.
Third, knowing that you know, is in the enlightenment stage.
Fourth, not knowing that you know, has entered the stage of spiritual realization.

When your first feelings of love awaken, your parents disagree.
When your feelings deepen, your wife disagrees.
By the time your passions are in full bloom, your children also disagree.
Throughout your entire life, it is all regret.

If it's not something that can be corrected on the spot, don't remind them; there's no need to mention it afterward. Others might feel embarrassed, and it could create anxiety for them. Sometimes, these reminders can actually cause trouble for yourself.

Who is most likely to suffer silently? Those who habitually interrupt others.
Who is most likely to achieve their goals? Those who are good at guiding others to speak.
The former cannot control their desire to express themselves, while the latter can stimulate others' desire to speak.

Everyone has their own unique talents. So how can you discover them? First, observe whether you find certain things "easier to do and more engaging," meaning you are willing to do them repeatedly without external pressure and can easily enter a state of focus; second, pay attention to feedback from others, see what they often praise you for or what they actively seek your advice on, because these are often more objective than self-assessment; third, review activities you have been interested in continuously since childhood that have never been interrupted, as these long-term stable tendencies

Why do the poorer people tend to like controlling those around them more? Because poverty leads to resource scarcity, which increases survival uncertainty. Uncertainty weakens the sense of security, and a lack of security prompts people to control others to establish predictability and psychological comfort.

Why do socks always lose one? Because when two are lost, you don't notice.
Why are old songs better than today's songs? Because the unappealing old songs don't get passed down.
Why is there no perfect crime? Because no one would ever know about a perfect crime.
Why don't adults picky eat? Because adults have the right to choose what they like, while children can only follow.
Why do developed countries have higher cancer rates? Because people in less developed countries die before they can get cancer.
Why have beauty and tragedy always gone hand in hand since ancient times? Because ug

Before entering society, your parents tell you to be kind.
After entering society, you realize that kind people are the ones being exploited.
But when you accumulate wealth, you find that kindness is the best filtering tool.
Finally, when you achieve enlightenment, you realize that people should be kind.

Heaven will punish those who focus their attention on others. When you start to be your true self without any restrictions, it will instead fascinate others. When you shine in your own field and focus on managing your life, you will naturally attract appreciative eyes. So you only need to take good care of your own life, and other people's trivial matters do not need to be concerned about. Whom you focus your attention on, they will have the ability to influence your emotions, so remember this and be sure to focus on yourself.
A person who knows self-love naturally carries an unstoppable aur

If a man has no friends, do not jump to conclusions easily; this is not necessarily a "danger signal," on the contrary, it may mean that he has already gained control over himself. He might be the kind of person who understands that "quality far surpasses quantity," and does not need a crowd to prove his worth. His confidence comes from within, not from others' approval. He is not afraid of solitude because he knows his own strength and boundaries. He is extremely cautious about where he invests his energy and is very selective about who enters his life.
He stays away from disputes and rumor

In some countries, laws are not meant to uphold fairness and justice. They’re meant to maintain order. The simplest way to maintain order is: let those who can endure endure more, let those who can compromise compromise more, and let those who can suffer suffer more. As for whether you’ve been wronged—no one cares.