People only need to do nine things in this life.

One,
1. The first is to study how to make money. Money can solve 90% of life's problems, and the remaining 10% can be alleviated with money.
2. The second is to study human nature. Once you see through human nature, you can stand undefeated in this society.
3. The third is to take care of your health. The biggest mistake a person can make is to exchange health for external possessions.
Good habits: the top is self-discipline, second is lifelong learning, third is maintaining exercise. Possessing these three habits makes a wonderful life within reach.
Two, don’t be anxious or self-destructive:
1. The eight words to calm anxiety: “Take things slowly, and everything will be smooth; take people slowly, and they will be at peace.”
2. When you encounter difficulties in life, you can recall that any problem’s arrival doesn’t require rushing to respond, don’t force yourself to solve it immediately. Let it ferment for a while, maybe the situation will turn around. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself; your life won’t be ruined because of this one thing. Also, always remember, you are more important than others, the present is more important than the past and future. Don’t be anxious or self-destructive; allow everything to happen.
Three, what is cognition
1. Trade what you have for what you want. That’s how the world has always been.
2. If you don’t take action, you will always be an observer. Only proactive action can change the status quo.
3. Relying on physical strength to make money, the older you get, the poorer you become; relying on wisdom to make money, the older you get, the wealthier you become.
4. Breaking an egg from the outside is food; breaking it from the inside is life. Similarly, pressure from outside is stress; growth from inside is development.
5. The fastest growth of a person is when she loses her sense of security.
6. Do more, think less.
Four, work hard for luck and success:
1. It’s the same with everything: those who don’t do it have a success rate of 0%; those who try have 20%; those who do well have 60%; those who work hard have 80%; those who give their all have 100%. The harder you work, the luckier you are.
2. The most painful thing in life isn’t failure, but realizing you could have, but didn’t. There are ten thousand possibilities in a person’s life, but if you don’t try, don’t work hard, and just go with the flow, your life only has one possibility. Life is exhausting; if you’re not tired now, you will be later. Life is bitter; if you’re not suffering now, it will be even more so later.
3. A good life is built through struggle and effort. Without experiencing the cold of winter, how can you enjoy the fragrance of plum blossoms? Without experiencing wind and rain, how can you see a rainbow? On the road of life, heaven always favors those who work diligently.
Five, a quote that makes me crazy about self-discipline:
Inamori Kazuo said: “Putting time on the bed increases weight; putting time into books increases wisdom; putting time into exercise increases health; putting time into hard work increases wealth; putting time into the market builds a career; putting time into family nurtures kinship. Wherever you invest your time, that’s where your harvest is. Use your time wisely, and your scenery will be beautiful. Improving self-control is the key to mastering life.” Just like Haruki Murakami said: “Limited goals make life simple. Since you’ve spent time and made a detailed plan, go ahead and execute actively, rather than making excuses: it’s raining today, I’m too tired tomorrow, the day after tomorrow I have overtime—these are not ways of thinking about doing things. If you don’t want to run today, that’s why you go; if you don’t want to learn today, that’s why you learn; if you don’t want to do today, that’s why you do. That’s the mindset of a long-term thinker.”
Six, never pretend to be generous:
1. Jumping to pay the bill, being the first to give red envelopes, never minding small change. Thinking that being generous will earn respect and love from friends. But reality will tell you:
When you’re poor, even your shadow will leave you.
2. The small money you look down on can disappear in an instant—electric bills, water bills, rent, car payments, and various bills arrive as scheduled. An adult’s breakdown doesn’t start with borrowing money; it starts with not saving money. Saving money shows you’ve earned money. If you don’t save, what’s the point of earning so much? Earning is ability; saving is the key. Don’t squander your generosity recklessly anymore.
Seven, always remember to prioritize your feelings. Always prioritize your feelings. You must know we don’t live to meet others’ expectations, but to live out our own lives. Even if you are disliked or spoken ill of, don’t take it too seriously, because how others see you is their issue. Pleasing yourself is the most important thing; self-love is fundamental. Don’t bow your head, confidence is crucial. Don’t be bound by anyone’s opinions, and don’t try to leave a good impression on everyone. Pleasing yourself more, your feelings and happiness are the most important. Go where you want, eat what you want, see who you want, do what you want. Make yourself happy; your happiness is more important than anything. Always remember to prioritize your feelings.
Eight, remember to be a brave person. Allow everything to happen, accept failure, accept imperfection in life, and even accept some people leaving suddenly. True strength isn’t forgetting, but accepting—accepting regrets, loneliness, and the imperfect self. Then move forward without looking back. Learn to say goodbye to people and things that aren’t worth it; dragging things out only drains you and makes you exhausted and irritable. We all need to be brave. Be decisive, accept the world’s imperfections, including ourselves. If something doesn’t work out, try again next time. Allow occasional failure, accept the unpredictability of life, and say goodbye bravely to welcome new beginnings. I hope everyone can love themselves well and remember to be brave.
Nine, the best Bole (talent scout) is the hardworking self—rely on your own strength to embrace a beautiful life. A bird on a tree isn’t afraid of the branch breaking because it depends not on the branch but on its own wings. Rely on yourself. At any time, you will be most confident and charming. Nothing in this world can block a determined heart. Walk steadily on every step, work diligently, be sincere, do things seriously, strive and fight, and you will have the chance to embrace your own beautiful life.