What is emotional intelligence

Before eating, compliment the cook first.
When others self-deprecate, never agree.
When hearing different opinions, don't rush to rebut.
When friends are down, don't show off your own success.
Speak with tact, don't say everything outright.
Do things with moderation, don't push things to the limit.
When emotions run high, know how to press the pause button.
Don't pass on bad emotions to those close to you.