The people who truly care about you are the ones who will feel a certain "fear" towards you.
You need to understand that when someone genuinely likes you, their attitude is often cautious and careful. They worry about not expressing themselves clearly, afraid you'll misunderstand; they consider every joke, afraid you'll be offended; they restrain their impulsiveness, afraid you'll feel disrespected. This "fear" is not cowardice or alienation, but rather because they cherish you too much, so they fear that any small mistake might cause you to leave. Therefore, when a man always uses "I'm straightforward" as an excuse and repeatedly makes you uncomfortable, it's not honesty, but rather that he doesn't care enough about your feelings. As the saying goes: Those who miss you find all directions convenient; those hoping to see you find all flavors sweet and sour. The ones who truly hold you in their hearts will always be available for you. In the essence of love, there is a cautious awareness. Those who love you are always afraid they haven't given enough; those who don't love you will think you ask for too much.
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The people who truly care about you are the ones who will feel a certain "fear" towards you.
You need to understand that when someone genuinely likes you, their attitude is often cautious and careful.
They worry about not expressing themselves clearly, afraid you'll misunderstand; they consider every joke, afraid you'll be offended; they restrain their impulsiveness, afraid you'll feel disrespected.
This "fear" is not cowardice or alienation, but rather because they cherish you too much, so they fear that any small mistake might cause you to leave.
Therefore, when a man always uses "I'm straightforward" as an excuse and repeatedly makes you uncomfortable, it's not honesty, but rather that he doesn't care enough about your feelings.
As the saying goes: Those who miss you find all directions convenient; those hoping to see you find all flavors sweet and sour.
The ones who truly hold you in their hearts will always be available for you.
In the essence of love, there is a cautious awareness. Those who love you are always afraid they haven't given enough; those who don't love you will think you ask for too much.